It can be a rather daunting task
contacting a New York City courtesan for the first time, especially
if you're new to the demimonde. Have no fear! I will show you to
right way to contact the lady of your dreams.
New York-based hobby boards are
inundated with posters lamenting, “I contacted her and she hung up
on me,” or “I emailed her 3 times and she never responded. What
gives?” Other posters will usually respond, “She is a
flake/bitch/unorganized/illiterate,” but here is some inside
advice;
The number one reason why inquiries
from potential clients remain unanswered is because what was said
was inappropriate.
The inquirer may have been serious about booking with the escort, but he made a bad first impression.
It's a common misconception female
escorts have no education/dignity/home training and therefore
“courting” an escort with kindness is a waste of time. This
couldn't be farther from the truth!
Escorts have started to pare down their
contact details to only booking forms on their websites, due to the
amount of inappropriate emails & calls received on a daily basis. When
you find an escort who publicly lists her phone and email address,
remember what you say in your first email determines whether or not
you will get an appointment.
You want the kind of email that gets a
response; a response leads to an interaction; a positive interaction
leads to a in-person meeting.
If you are guilty of writing anything
similar to the following, stop it right now.
Seriously, knock it off.
(click on the screenshots to read the emails)
 |
| Haggling in his first email to me was no laughing matter. His excuse? It wasn't written anywhere that bargaining was inappropriate. |
 |
One liner email asking about sex acts for money. BAD!
|
 |
| While not offensive, the mention of "GFE" & "deep kissing" is too explicit; an escort know what her job entails and doesn't need it spelled out. Keep your emails acronym-free! However, he does list his references and why he is inquiring which is helpful information. Keep it simple. |
Think about what you would say if you were emailing reservations at a nice restaurant or making an appointment with a personal trainer. While it obviously isn't the same thing, you would still politely inquire and then provide important details so confusion is kept to a minimum.
The perfect format for your first email
to an escort is as follows:
- A greeting, as in “Hello” or “Good Evening”
- A quick introduction,“my name is...”
- The reason for the email, as in an appointment request or a specific question
- Details pertinent to the meeting: time, place, date etc.
- The best way to be reached as well as the best time to be reached.
- If you have a question, make it brief & clear
- If you have other courtesans who can vouch for your character, include their complete information. It will save time for both of you.
- If you like, include a few details about yourself but keep it simple.
- It's also helpful to note where you found her advert
- A closing line, as in “thank you” or “best wishes”
Let's put this all together:
Hello
Tabitha,
I
saw your ad on Eros.com and am contacting you in regards to your
availability on March 10 at 7pm. We will meet at the Standard hotel
on Washington st. where I will be staying. You may contact Sexy Suzy
of NY (123-456-7890) and Naughty Nikki of PA (123-456-7890) for
references. My phone number is 123-456-7890. Call me anytime after
5pm. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Best
Regards,
John
Smith
This
is all you need to say. Nothing more.
See
how easy that was? By using this simple format, you have presented
yourself as a gentleman and have provided helpful information
upfront.
Your addressee can then quickly
check her schedule, contact the escorts for references & respond
to you quickly
regarding her availability. You are now one step closer to getting
that date you've been dreaming about.
Once
the date has been confirmed, there is no need to call & email
constantly just to say hi. She hasn't forgotten about you and is just
as excited about the date as you are. Of course it is okay to check
in with her the evening before or morning of, but that is common
sense, right?
There
you have it - no magic bullet.
Follow this format and you will have no problem getting a response from an escort.
Thank
you for reading!
www.ebonyescortnewyork.com
Posts
